Sunday, October 9, 2011

Pantyhose Acceptance

Sometimes people just don't get you.  Do you ever get that feeling?  Well, if you do, you're not alone.  Even if your interests were more mainstream, you'd still be misunderstood by others from time to time, but you love pantyhose (or at least I assume you do, because you're reading this) and that's just not normal, or is it?

It turns out, the answer to that question depends on the company you keep.  Every community has a tacit set of norms sometimes known as "community standards" and if you're comparing yourself to your neighbors down the street, across town, or across the country, you'll probably find your pantyhose fetish to be outside the norm.  Duh!  That's why it's called a fetish in the first place! 

So you're outside the norm of most community standards, but are you normal?  In other words, is it normal to crave pantyhose in the way that we do?  Dictionary.com defines "normal" as conforming to the standard, so again if you're comparing yourself to your local community or even the world at large, you're going to feel somewhat out of place.  The fortunate thing for all of us is that we get to choose the community within which we align ourselves.

No, I'm not going to suggest that the Pantyhose Share Club community form a colony or commune to align ourselves and our norms with the community in which we live.  Interesting concept, but that's just not practical.  I'm afraid you'll have to continue living wherever it is that you live and your pantyhose compulsion will continue to seem abnormal when compared to that community and it's norms.  But you can still align yourself with the Pantyhose Share Club community, you are by virtue of being here, and here you'll be accepted despite your globally-abnormal traits because our norm is quite well aligned with a love for pantyhose.

If you feel isolated, an outcast, an oddball, because of your pantyhose addiction, a community of others with similar interests might just be what you need to feel connected. You may not realize it, and I hope you have the opportunity to discover this first-hand, but pantyhose lovers are some of the best people I know.  I can't vouch for all pantyhose enthusiasts, but I live in the world at large and I associate with a smaller circle through the Pantyhose Share Club community and when I compare I find that those within our community exhibit a higher level of caring, compassion, understanding and acceptance.  In other words, higher quality people populate our community when compared to the world at large!  This is all just my opinion, of course, but I've spent many years observing so I'm not forming this opinion based on just a few observations.

It's true, the community within which you live might find your pantyhose obsession to be abnormal, but where you live is likely a circumstance beyond your control (it's where you were born, or where you found work, or where you got stationed, etc.) and there's no need to uproot and relocate to find pantyhose alignment, that place does not appear on any map.  Here you are well aligned, your pantyhose compulsion is accepted and your community norms label you normal.  Yes, we get you even if the world at large doesn't.

I'm looking forward to sharing more with you soon.

J.

6 comments:

  1. Thanks Electricgurl for not making me feel like a freak. Sure, I enjoy the erotic pleasure that pantyhose provide me, but I also just like the feel of them on my legs. They relax and comfort me and make me feel good. Is that so bad?

    Silk55

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  2. Silk55,

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts here. You are not alone in your pantyhose compulsion and while I've never thought it was a bad thing, I haven't always felt accepted for the person I am. I accept you and all pantyhose lovers for who and what you are. This compulsion is an integral part of our lives and it's certainly not hurting anyone so it is certainly NOT bad!!

    J.

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J.